Elegant Hamptons Wedding

Elegant Hamptons Wedding

Editor’s Note: Pulling another timeless favorite from the archives today – enjoy! xx.

One of my favorite photographers, Patricia Kantzos, has kindly sent over another stunning wedding she captured oh-so-perfectly! Every single detail of this wedding seems so brilliantly timeless and I’m really adoring the family photos on the mantel! Elizabeth and Kurt wed at the incredibly beautiful Bourne Mansion along Montauk Highway in Oakdale, NY.


Let’s hear about this beautiful day from the lovely bride, Elizabeth:

Tell us about some of your favorite personal touches at the wedding …
I loved having photos of family and friends on the fireplace mantels and throughout the mansion. We tried very hard to have at least one photo of each guest. Throughout wedding planning we focused on making the wedding not only about the love that we share with each other, but also for our family and friends. The photos definitely helped us to accomplish that task by warming and personalizing the mansion. Our friends and family also told us that during the cocktail hour they enjoyed walking around the mansion reminiscing as they looked at the photos and being surprised when they found photos of themselves.

The icecream sundae bar was a huge hit. Kurt doesn’t like cake so in addition to the cake and pastries we wanted to have an option he would enjoy. It showed a childlike side of everyone as they ran passed the coffee and cordials directly to the sundae bar.

As far as what I wore, I loved the additions to my dress – the buttons down the back and the straps, which I was able to remove for the reception. I ordered extra material of the fabric used for the bow and my seamstress at Kleinfeld’s made the straps. I also loved the pin (which was my “something borrowed”), as well as my necklace.

Music – although difficult to capture in photos, the music throughout the wedding was very special. From the quartet during the ceremony, to the saxophone and piano players during the cocktail hour, to the outstanding band for the reception, the music certainly set the elegant, but fun mood we wanted.

Centerpieces – Kurt and I used to enjoy the annual Cherry Blossom Festival while I was in college in Washington, DC, so we wanted Cherry Blossom branches, but they were unavailable in June. Instead we had branches draped with orchids, which we ended up loving just as much, if not more than the cherry blossoms.

What was your favorite part of your wedding?
 Greeting guests after ceremony – originally I didn’t want a receiving line, but it turned out to be a great way to see each guest. Walking into reception – I loved the way our maitre d organized our entrance. Speeches – we loved the toasts given at our wedding, they were all very special and my brother’s was hilarious. Dancing with my Dad – I loved dancing with my dad at my wedding. I think it’s one of those moments you always picture and it was perfect. I also loved dancing (swaying) with both my parents as we watched Kurt dance with his mom. That we didn’t have a tornado – right after my mom and I had our hair and makeup done we heard that there was a tornado warning. Luckily, it never happened, and instead the lighting was absolutely gorgeous. Taking pictures outside during the cocktail hour – I had hoped to have all of our pictures done before the wedding, but we didn’t have an opportunity to go outside beforehand. Not only do I love the pictures, but it was very relaxed so it was nice to spend some quiet time as husband and wife.

Credits: Florist – James Cress Florist (Smithtown, NY) / Dress – Christos (purchased and altered at Kleinfeld’s, New York, NY) / Stationary – William Arthur / Cake – Audrey’s Fine Baked Goods (Sayville, NY) / Venue – The Bourne Mansion (Oakdale, NY) /Jewelry: Engagement Ring & Wedding Bands – London Jewelers (Manhasset, NY) / Other jewelry (including hairpin) – Thomas Knoell / Hair/Makeup – T. Carlton Salon (Smithtown, NY) / Photography – Patricia Kantzos

Patricia Kantzos Photography is a current Classic Bride blog sponsor but this is not a sponsored post.



  1. February 18, 2011 / 10:20 PM

    This gorgeous wedding is also so fabulously photographed! It’s wonderful how she caught such intimate moments and precious expressions. These are what wedding memories are made of!

  2. February 21, 2011 / 12:09 AM


  3. February 23, 2011 / 4:34 PM

    Gorgeous wedding. I love that they included personal photos throughout the venue.

    I’m actually doing the same at my wedding next February, and I’m just getting started with collecting antique frames and photos of our guests.

  4. February 26, 2011 / 11:51 PM

    Wow… absolutely extraordinary. Elizabeth looks like a movie star… is she one? I can see why the photographer is a fave. These pictures are ART. Glorious. And that sprawling venue is breathtaking! Aaaah!

  5. June 27, 2011 / 5:39 PM

    I agree with Lissa, wedding is fabulously photographed. Great work!

  6. Zookbinders
    November 20, 2014 / 9:55 AM

    Beautiful wedding + lovely smiles = perfect!

  7. DreamDay Invites
    December 14, 2014 / 10:45 PM

    Gorgeous wedding . Love the venue and photography.